Sunday 15 July 2012

Of snakes and ladders


As children, a lot of us loved playing the game of snakes and ladders. Oh, the thrill of climbing up the ladders and the dread of landing on the mouth of the snake which would pull us back to the starting point. And wasn't it the worst feeling to get caught at the big snake that used to lie in wait at 99 just when we were about to win the game and reach 100 on the scoreboard?
We forget this simple game as we grow up and get busy in our daily lives as adults.
But isn’t the grown up world of jobs and responsibilities a lot like the simple game of snakes and ladders that we played so often and well as children?
We all look for ladders for success, helping hands and opportunities that propel us forward, give us recognition for our efforts and help us grow as individuals.
And most of us are unaware when we are treading on the mouths of the snakes that lay in wait to trap us and pull us down from our heights. And very often the snake pulls us down just before a big triumph, a big win.
How do we deal with such invisible snakes? Well, that’s a lesson our children can teach us. Just as they cheerfully go back to playing the game and start the climb upwards on the playing board all over again, so too must we; even though it may seem more daunting and difficult the second time around.
And with patience, and a smile, hopefully, we’ll find the next ladder just around the corner.

2 comments:

  1. You have made some really good points, Debleena. Not everyone really notices it, but the board game we all used to love is also the perfect illustration of the circle of life. During the game, we all wanted to climb up all the ladders along the way. Sadly, not everyone is fortunate and is brought down by all the snakes. Well, I guess that’s really what life is. The important thing is that no matter how many times you’ve been bitten by a snake, you still play everything cool and keep the game going.

    Esmeralda Tabarez

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  2. Thanks Esmeralda. Agree with you completely, and it is so tough to keep the game going

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